I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. Hes not cold at all. Its a 99% chance that hell hurt you, but what makes it bad is that the Mars person doesnt really know that they are. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Neither did he. It is because mars is a harsher planet? What he did to you was cowardly. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. Oh one more thing: I am a Sun, Venus & Jupiter/Sag native and my Venus is opposite to my 12th House Gemini placement (Uranus-RETRO). It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. I know the Pluto-Moon opposition would usually involve some obsession but not sure about the Pluto-Saturn conjunct opposing moon. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. Even PRAY, and pray hard for them to LEAVE you, your sector, your spirit. The 12th house rules things. Your email address will not be published. An at one point he came to me, looked me in the eyesand asked me: " do I know you?" It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. She longs for a partner who will just let her "be": someone who will go with the flow, and give her plenty of alone time (12th House natal planets often demand periods of isolation). I felt I was led to believe they cared for me, and while showering me with attention, long distance no less, never told me they had feelings for someone else they were trying to avoid. It's much like a therapist/patient relationship. Do you mind posting a synastry? Any info i'll share with you later. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . The Venus person embodies the ideal partner of the Juno person. Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. and yes check your saturn sometimes saturn can point to what you don't likebut then again it cam be good and make you feel comfortable with someomethats why overall picture of synastry is so important!!!!! I can relate to almost all you've been saying. It s killing me . I dont have other words for that. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. Venus in the Houses in Synastry. So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . When we are having a nightmare we have to face immense fears. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. Required fields are marked *. The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. We work well together and it is always professional. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. has Sun conjunct Saturn, they natrually have a hard time showing their affections and are very fatherly, 12th house gives you a very spiritual feeling almost like they could be your soulmate, it can be pretty intense ad consuming so if your not very spiritual/aware of yourself or in a good place in life, you might have a hard time feeling this energy or wanting to accept it, its different, its not so much lustful, its just friggin beautiful, you wanna make love to that person and cuddle them, i also have an empty 12th housei could love this energy so much possibly because aqua venuses that land there most of time trine my moon.i feel like if someones planets fall in 12th AND also aspect sun/moon/asc, youll be able to accept and recieve this awesome energy more. I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. Just not every second. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. Hi, Feeling. He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. where is your Neptune? Sent 3-5 times a week. His Mars is conjunct my Moon and North Lunar Node which made it all the more compelling; his Neptune/Scorpio (which is Retrograde) is conjunct my 5th House Venus, and his Uranus and Pluto fall in my 3rd House where my IC is. What does it mean, and how does it affectthings? so i point it out, and im more aware. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. It's all about 12th house. I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. I don't know. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? when i came back there was this weird thing between us. It was a weird sort of dance, attract/ repulse. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. Can you tell me whats really going on here? He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. Someone may be misinterpreting something. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. Lot's of non-verbal communicating. Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? Venus is considered a Benefic, which means that this planet tends to bring good fortune. Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Also VenusianMoon, the outside person (your boyfriend?) There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. He told you that he is not in love with you. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. or I fail? In hindsight, I now believe that my 12th Houser is just that. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! You will not regret it. This is especially true with the Moon here but other planets as well. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. But I ve never felt what I have felt for this other guy..and still sometimes feel. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. More so after 15 years. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. For one odd reason I never completely believed him. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. Venus in the 12 th House The Venus person functions in a manner that increases the House person's self-confidence. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. Sounds karmic or so I think. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. I couldn't forget him until now. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. Very easy.
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